Tuesday, December 29, 2009

To Every Hopeful Heartbroken Girl

Why is it that most conversations concerning "heartbroken" girls are normally so judgemental? People are always so mean and negative when referring to girls that are hung up on a break-up and this is really beginning to bother me lately. Just think for a minute; have you ever been in their position? If you've answered yes, then don't you remember what it's like? And if not, then who are you to judge them anyway?

Every heartbroken girl is not the same as one another. Some are immature, yes. Some are naive. Some actually seem to enjoy being depressed and undoubtedly love the attention it brings... but there are other kinds of heartbroken girls. The hopeful kind. The girls with self-respect. The ones that pick themselves up off the floor, and put all the pieces of their shattered hearts back together on their own. The girls that have the strength to continue on with their lives like nothing ever went wrong. The girls who know they deserve better, and yes, they definitely do. They don't deserve to be judged, picked apart, and thrown into a category for being heartbroken either. They deserve to be admired for their hopefulness. Their independence, and their strength; their ability to push through every day acting like everything is just fine, even when they really just want to break down and cry.

To every hopeful girl out there,
Those of you that are outwardly acting happy and unfathomed, but inwardly feeling broken and completely lost- I just want you to know that I admire you. I appreciate what you're doing and the way you're handling your situation. Even if I don't know you, it moves me. It really does. I've been there and I know what it takes. I know how hard you're working towards this, even if it seems to others as though your happiness comes with ease. Keep moving on, and things will get easier. In time<3

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